MISUNDERSTANDING
Many a time we keep quarrelling and confusing and this may or can cause a great loss to one and not some but, i say, most of time one suffers conflicts and confusion or is uncertain about what to do with the person or situation he is dealing in or with. This is all due to misunderstanding as the the tittle of this writing indicates. Most of this takes in family, relative and friends matter and dismembers our relations with them. Misunderstanding between a wife and husband, between two friends, girl and boy friends and misunderstanding among and between our relatives takes us away from one -another or each-other. This makes the life of one too miserable to live. So i advise all of you to avoid misunderstanding. every one, in his or her life, face conflicts and problems caused by misunderstanding. Now the question is that, where and how and why misunderstanding takes place. keep in mind that we all human beings have the power of expressing our ideas and things to one - another, and this is due to the communication to say things how they are and how not. every one has his own ideas to and for everything in our life and around us and we say them in our own ways. So now you have understood that misunderstanding takes place when we talk to each- other and one-another. To avoid misunderstanding, the foremost and the first thing is to talk in a polite way and receive the respond calmly and politely whether it is bitter or pinching. Try to make others or your partner understand what massage you want to convey has no wrong intention. Try to understand that other in rage may speak bitter words but perhaps have no wrong intention to annoy you, so considering this keep quiet and calm. The real thing is to understand the intention behind the spoken words and we know that there may irritational or foavrable intention but in return, getting excited has no solution, this can lead to more puzzling situation. So establish your point calmly but you can also take it for some other day if you feel the situation much tensed or your partner too much angry. In it a senior or an adult person has much responsibility to handle and control the situation occurred due to misunderstanding. A child or a teenage may or can say or speak out at any point or to any one without thinking of anything.
